Changing jobs

Recently, I received an email from an old classmate. In it, she said : “Have been bored > 50% of the time the past 7 years”…so she’s quit and going to start a new job soon where she hope the word ‘bored’ wouldn’t be part of her vocab.

2 thoughts came into me mind when I received this…

– Wow! She can quit and just pick up another job at her age? Now I’m not saying she’s old (well, she’s the same age as me…and I’m NOT OLD). But you read in the newspapers all these stories about ‘ex’ managers, executives and directors (ok, maybe not directors) who find it hard to get a ‘new’ job when they hit ’40’ (which seems to be a magical number…hmm…maybe it is…since the number ‘4’ means die in Chinese). I mean, it’s totally, totally demoralising. Doesn’t help with all the government hype about ‘retraining’, reeducation’, ‘re-entering’…and all the ‘re’s you can think. In my university days, a ‘re’ means a resit for an exams…which really isn’t too good.

So, of course, most people hang to their job for their dear life. And even if you do get a job offer, you hesitate to take it up because you’re not sure if it’s worthwhile taking the risk. What if the company shuts down? Or you get retrenched? Or you find out that your new boss is even worse than the previous one? Better to stick with the devil you know right?

Which then leads to another question or problem…however way you look at it.

If the ‘oldies’ don’t move out, then how are the ‘newbies’ going to move up?

I remember KC complaining to me years ago (when he was about 30) and had just joined a local bank. He reckoned he was never going to be able to move up the ladder becasue they were all occupied by long timers.

Now that he’s in the 40’s and belong to those old timers…I wonder…. will he moving out? hehe! I must check with him…or if he is reading this…(he did used to, before all the distraction came along)…give me a call and let me know. ^^

– and the 2nd point? She was bored with her previous job.

Now that again…is something quite unusual. Because most people are really probably quite bored with their job. I mean, how many people really want to 七早八早 wake up, compete with about 2 million people on the road, so that you can reach the office in time for endless meetings, answering meaningless questions. Repeat this 5 times a week and even remotely ‘ok’ jobs become boring. Not many people have really, really ‘interesting’ jobs anyway. And if they do, they probably don’t get paid well…not unless you’re Mr Lee Ang or Mr Dennis Foo.

So most of do not quite because a job is boring…Most of us work…so that we can have the means to do interesting stuff.

Even for me, with my flexi hours….I’m frustated at times….

That’s why we all dream of winning the lottery big time. (hubby dear, if you’re reading this…and I know you do…can you please work a little harder on those winning tickets? Pleazzze?)

Actually, I do want to change job too…well…not so much change job as to expand on what I’m already doing based on my interest…..

I’m seriously exploring the opportunities to do some tie-ups on my kimchiblog or even this blog…so…people….if you people have any ideas or leads…drop me a note hor.

In the meantime, it’s back to the reality of selling ad space…..just in case my editor checks out this site and finds me writing when I should be selling.

Arctic Tale

Artic Tales
Directed by: Adam Ravetch, Sarah Robertson
Narrated by: Queen Latifah

How many of you watched ‘March of the Penguins’ and was overwhelmed by their spectacular journey through blizzard cold…to find a mate and start a family? The image of the penguins, marching in a single file, bracing themsevles against the antartic wind to protect their young, will probably stay forever in our minds.

The story:
Arctic Tale is a movie by the same people (different directors though) about those who inhabit on the opposite side of the pole- The Arctic.

And the centre of the story is the polar bears…to be specific….one particular polar bear, Nanu and Cela, the walrus. In between, you have a few other characters, like the arctic fox and the seals who inhabit the same place as these two and are dependant on each other for survival.

The story starts off with a mother bear, who is just emerging from her 6 months of hibernation after giving birth to 2 little bear cubs (those 2 bear cibs are really cute!). Normally, polar bear cubs stay with their mother for 3 years…where they will be taught all that is necessary to stay alive in the harsh environment. And each of the baby walrus have an extra guardian (besides their mother), in the form of auntie to protect them. And boy, these lady warulses can be really fierce….even full grown polar bears can find their weight and sharp tusks a little intimidating.

For the next 90 minutes or so, we see how each of these animals try to survive, not just their natural enemies, but also the changing environment due to the warming of the climate. For these animals, the melting of the ice world can be disasterous. When any part of nature is unbalance, their basic survival is affected.

Hence we see the walruses swimming far out to sea, away from their home, to another island when the ice melted too early and could not hold them anymore. We see the polar bears, at the risk of facing starvation, following them and hunting far from their natural habitat. And a couple of times, I did have my heart in my mouth, wondering if Nanu is going to survive this exhuasting trip, for polar bears are not meant to swim for long distances.

It is truely a survival of the fittest. Only in this case, even the the fittest may not survive if there’s no food.

Thoughts on movie:
As with any National Geographic documentaries, this is an excellent production. There is no doubt about it. Some of the images are simply spectacular and breathtaking. I take my hat off to the people who braved the cold and harsh weather by patiently capturing scenes that are simply worth a thousand words.

The bear cubs were really, really cute (makes me want to get one) and they have even managed to inject some humour into the movie.

Perhaps that is where the one flaw may lie….

The underlying message is a serious one but the movie is just a little too warm and fuzzy to convey that properly. I like watching cute animals and often the sight of these warm, cuddley animals may be effective in giving that tug-in-the-heart feeling. In this case, perhaps they should have been a little more cruel…so that they can be kind. Plus I find the music a little too distracting as well.

Despite the above, it’s still worth a watch.

If only to educate the young ones about the seriousness of climate change and that each and everyone of us can make a difference.

The ice kingdom is being threatened…and it is getting increasingly difficult for these animals to stay alive with the climate change. Their ancient ways of living, hunting and mating are being threatened slowly.

One day, one day…these animals may disappear …like the dinosaurs. No more cute polar bears.

If you really want to bring a direct benefit by watching the movie, the following activities are being planned:

– The ZOO is holding an outdoor fundraising screening on Saturday, 8th September at 7.30pm in favor of Wildlife Conservation Singapore Fund – Go here for more info.

– Nature Society /Acres is also holding a fundraising screening.
Date: 11th September, Tuesday
Time: 7pm
Venue: GV VivoCity, Hall 5
Go here for more infor.

Incidentally, SPH foundation sponsored the Gala Premiere and S$120,000 to the Zoo for the Polar Bear conservation.

For more information about the movie, go to:
Festive Films
Official site

Arctic Tale opens on 13th September with sneak previews this week. Please support hor…

Chinatown- Singapore

A big thank you to all my friends who sent me birthday wishes…thanks for remembering…^^

I took the day off last week and went down to Chinatown, a place I normally go only during Chinese New Year. There are quite a few changes and it’s more touristy now. At the same time, I must admit that the whole place is alot livelier…

Chinatown Heritage Centre

I’ve actually passed by this place numerous time but have always given it a miss as I thought it was just another one of those place meant for tourists.

But my good friend, YL, actually recommend it so despite my reservations, we decided to visit it.

Somehow this made me think of the famous TCS drama- 雾锁南洋 (starring 黄文永 & 向云)。

The Chinese Heritage Centre records the history and lives of those who used to live in Chinatown. Most of them would be migrants, who came seeking for a better life. It was actually quite fascinating to read about the hardship and vices of these early migrants. But I think it could have done with a little more actual display. The more interesting sections would be the video clips of interviews with various types of people who used to live or continue to live in Chinatown (including a samsui woman and a hawker) and the recreation of living quarters in the shophouse.

I have these bowls too..^^

The recreation and restoration of the cramped, dark and unhygenic living quarters of a typical shophouse was the highlight of the whole museum. I’m totally amazed (and shock) how 12 to 15 familes could live together in such tiny area. I’m not sure how they survived. But then my grandparennts and their children lived in similar quarters too though my aunt told me that theirs was slightly better and it wasn’t in Chinatown.

The musuem shop was so-so. Entrance fees is $10 (which is way too expensive) but if you flash your POSB/ DBS card, you get 50% discount. Not sure if this promotion is permanent though. Here’s the website for you to check out- Chinatown Heritage Centre. There are some more information and pictures on the site. Ok lah, I think well worth my time spent there.

We had tea and coffee in this coffeeshop, just opposite the heritage centre and I had a heart attack when I paid for the drinks.

$1.50 per cup!!!!

This is daylight robbery…just because there were lots of tourists sitting in the coffeeshop. This was just your regular tei or kopi, served in your regular kopitiam cups. Of course, to the tourists…$1.50 probably is nothing. I’m definitely not stepping into this coffeeshop again.

Expensive kopitiam

We continued on our journey of Chinatown. I didn’t know that the street stalls have become permanent. I thought they were only there during the festive season. So ‘sua koo’ right? But the stalls are really targted at the tourists lor..nothing very interesting. At least not to a local like me.

Street stalls….beginning to look like ‘Ladies Street’ in Hong Kong

Hehe! Someone told me that this shop is special….

Toys for the living….

Toys for the dead….

What’s Chinatown without dimsum right?

One thing I did like about Chinatown is the restoration of many of the shophouses. The architect is really beautiful.

Return of the Condor Heroes

Hands up, those of you who remembered the Hong Kong entertainment in the 80’s.

Hands and legs up those of you who remembered the hit drama, “Return of the Condor Heros”.

I’m not talking about the Louis Khoo version. I’m talking about the definite version by a very young Andy Lau and Idy Chan.

I remembered.

It was like the WLS of today. It had everyone glued to the screen, from my grandmother to my aunties. The songs were hits and we would be playing them day in and day out. In fact we were so hooked that we were watching the last few episodes within one day. We watched the the second last episode till about 2am in the morning and then thought we’d better be sensible and go to bed. We were up a few hours later at 5am to catch the last episode. We couldn’t stand the suspense…. including my grandmother. hahaha!

In those days, there was no dvd. We rented tapes from the video shops. These tapes arrive like about a week after the episode is aired on the HK TV. One episode per tape. So if it’s 20 episodes, you have 20 tapes. If it’s a very popular drama, you have to queue. So sometimes, you watch a drama till ep 15 and then may not get to watch the rest of it till 3 weeks later. I think it’s still being done now. Only it’s dvd instead of tapes.

Anyway, back to Return of the Condor Heros.

Andy Lau was young then. He still had some puppy fat and had already starred in a few dramas but he wasn’t well known. This drama made him a star.

Though he didn’t have as much effect on me then as BYJ did now, he did leave a very deep impression on me. He was Yang Guo and together with Idy Chan as the Little Dragon Girl, they were a perfect on screen couple.

Anyway, both he and Idy Chan created quite a storm in the little red dot, Singapore. And thus shortly after the drama ended in HK, both of them came to Singapore to cash in on the popularity.

If I remembered correctly, I think they performed at World Trade Centre and I think I went with SW. I can’t really remember. Actually, I couldn’t really recall much of the performance either. I did remember our seats weren’t too bad, I could actually see them fairly up close. But I’m not sure if I had paid for those expensive tickets. You see, back then, as very poor, struggling students, we would buy the cheapest tickets and then when the lights dimmed and the show was about to start, we would all rushed forward and filled the good seats in the front rows. haha! There was much less control then.

Anyway, don’t think the show was very memorable. He hadn’t started on his singing career then but I think it was ok. Looking at the photos now, I think some of the dance moves/ poses were quite silly. hehe!


Told you they were silly poses.

Of course back then, we didn’t think so lah and enjoyed every minute of it.

Anyway, after the show, my friend suggested that we should go to the back door and wait for him. Initially, I hesitated. I wasn’t used to doing such things. But I couldn’t resist the temptation and the urgings of my friend. And so we waited outside the back door, together with some fans. Not many. Not like today, where he would probably have a few hundreds of fans waiting. Then, there were maybe about 20 to 30?

And just as I thought this was madness and we should leave. He came out. And this was what happened next:

He was really very young then. So was I.
Though actually in reality, he’s not that much older than I am.

Now I wonder if I could auction off this photo.
Maybe I should placed my precious ‘BYJ-hugging-me photo’ next to it and framed them both up.

What do you all think? ^^

*Postnote: will the person who has my set of Return of the Condor Heroes kindly return it to me? I’d like to watch my Yang Guo again…

Look back with no regrets

Someone told me she didn’t like this kind of ‘moral’ story. It’s very hard to choose and there isn’t any right or wrong.

True.

It’s kind of depressing, sin’t it?

But I wasn’t out to make everyone sit down to think about right or wrong. I guess I just want everyone to just think. What actually really captured my interest was the ending……

Judge Deed lifted the injunction. I believe it is a decision that any ‘sensible’ person would make.

Cut to the scene in the hospital, in Peter’s room with a group of nurses and his parents. Peter knows they want to prepare for his operation and that the injunction has been lifted. he tried to pull of all the tubes that are attached to his body. He is struggling and kept saying ‘No, no!’

His parents is trying to calm him and his mother keeps telling him to look at her and that it will be alright. Seeing his son’s violent reaction, at one point, his father said:’Are you sure we’re doing the right thing?’ His mother shouted back:’Of course we are!’

Peter died in surgery. he did not wake up from the coma.

I guess you could say he willed himself to die. He did not want to live on terms that are against his beliefs.

– Is what we think that is the best for another person really the best?
– Are you prepared to die for your beliefs?
– Does one person’s effort count?
– Have we lived each day as if it’s the last?

Will we look back with no regrets?

I think neither Peter nor his parents regret their choices and decisions. I’m certain given the same choices and situation again, the same decisions will be made.

Someone has to take responsibility

I’ve often found British detective/ crime dramas much more interesting than American ones. Many will say that they are rather slow. Well, I guess it’s not in the English character to go:’Bang, slam, hit, whizz’ as they tend to prefer understated emphasis. Slow they may be but they are definitely not boring.

Husband and I have recently became very interested in this particular drama- Judge John Deed, starring Martin Shaw. According to husband, Martin was rather popular in the 70’s as he’s quite a charmer. I can believe my husband. Martin Shaw has a certain charisma like Sean Connery and BYJ, despite the slightly protruding tummy and grey hair.

There are various stories in each episode but they are all connected or carries the same the same message. And the cases are always thought provoking.

But what’s even more interesting is Judge John Deed himself.

He’s a senior judge.
He’s also a controversial judge, often pushing the limits of the law in his sentencing.
He’s also something of a playboy and sometimes I wonder how he managed to rise to that position but I guess as long what he does privately do not affect his judgement, we shouldn’t be judging him for hsi private life.

And so every Sunday, 9pm, would find us parked infront of the TV, with pizza and beer on hand. ^^ Last Sunday’s story was really quite interesting, perhaps even more so for my vegetarian husbandmfqe

Peter (I forgot the character’s name) is a 15 years and 11 months old boy suffering from a heart disease. He has a rare chance to receive a heart transplant. But Peter is also a vegetarian since he was 2 1/2 years old.

If he receives the heart, he will be on medication for the rest of his life. Medication that has been tested on animals, where they suffered and done in the name of advancing scienec. He feels that animals and man are equal and animals should not be made to suffer so as to save mankind. It is cruel to the animals because they were given no choice in this matter. Even if they were treated humanely during the process of reseach, they still suffered. It is mainly for this reason that he objects to the transplant. He ie a very clear minded, intelligent boy, who reads widely and is capable of making sound decisions.

His parents, especially his mother feels that this belief of his is but a romantism, a fad. As a mother, she cannot bear to watch him die. She loves him dearly and that it is her responsibility to save him. She feels she is doing the best for him as he is incapable of making a decision as a minor (even though he is just weeks away from being regarded as an adult legally).

Without the transplant, he would definitely die very soon in a matter of weeks.
With the transplant, there is still no guarantee he will live but there is a fighting chance.

Peter took out an injunction against the transplant and Judge Deed has to decide if

1) the injunction should be lifted because he is still a minor and the parents’ and medical specialists directions should be followed.

or

2) let the injuntion remain so that the boy’s wishes can be carried out. He is clearly certain of the consequence of his decision and the grief that it will cause his parents.

There is no right or wrong answer in this matter, only what one ‘thinks’ is the best for Peter.

If the translpant goes ahead, Peter will be kept alive for the rest of his life with the very things that is so against his core beliefs. He may even hate his parents for clearly forcing him into this situation. However, he may live to be able to do more good for the society.

I will post Judge Deed’s decision and the outcome of that decision later. Give it some thought first.

There was this line that Peter mentioned to Judge Deed that was very simple but very hard to follow:

“Somone has to take some responsibility for the actions of the other.”

Here’s the link to the drama series: http://www.bbc.co.uk/drama/crime/judge/

14 Men and an oval ball

It’s really hard to ignore the World Cup fever that’s just round the corner.

From tvs with BIG screens to recorders, to beer to airline adverts.

But for me, it doesn’t have as much thrill and excitement as rugby. Sorry, football fans.

In rugby, you try to bring down the opponent with the ball, you push against each other for possession of the ball. You run with the ball to the other end to score a touch-down. Much more exciting and ‘rough’ than football. I mean if you are going to run around a field chasing a ball, you might as well fight for it, right? Hmm…. says something about my character. No wonder I ended joining judo instead of gymastics.

Anyway, last weekend, we went to watch the Rugby 7’s at the National Stadium, an international series hosted by Sngapore. Not that Singapore is any good, but that’s another story.

In the 7’s series, there are only 7 players instead of the usual 15 players. The playing time is shorter too, only 7 minutes. This means that not only the men has to be fit, they have to be fast as well.

And if you think big men can’t run fast, you should think again. And you should see some of them holding onto the ball with one hand, pushing away an attacker with the other hand, AND running towards the goal line at the same time. Quite something.

What I really liked about this event, which I’ve been going for the last 3 years, is the very ‘family’ and carnival atmosphere. Maybe because the fans are more cosmopolitan. So you see children running around, balllons shaping and face painting for kids, bagpipes players, drums group and the infectious music being played during all the breaks. You’ll laugh but songs like YMCA (by Village people), Delina (Tom Jones), Oh Carol gets the crowd on their feet, singing, dancing and tap along, including my 2 left-feet husband. Oldies but goodies, definitely.

But what really got me amused it this:

You get a chance to be in this cool pool when you buy your beer. For half an hour, you’re allowd to soak in the cool water, a respite from the hot and get free beer…….IN PUBLIC.

Can you imagine any women wanting to be in the pool? Me either. I guess that’s why there were many more men than women. But the men were really, really enjoying themselves.

Knowing my Korean craze, my husband asked me who I was supporting in one of the finals, which was between Korean and China. Silly man, need he ask?


Hehehehe!

Singapore, unfortunately, is just not quite up there, though they played much better on the 2nd day than the 1st day. Thankfully, they finish the tournament by scoring some points in the last match…

Husband finally convinced himself that he should really, show off his support for his home team, and just before going off to the game on Saturday.

You can tell he’s really pleased with it….